Scars are not just on the surface, and in the physical.
There may be substantial healing needed prior to another baby – or just to move on so life is easy again. Please find yourself someone to assist with this – the organisations set up specifically for this may be able to help you.
I have worked with Kalianna Rose from northern NSW (Australia) – she has some wondrous healing essences that work gently and well – please contact her. For you and for baby. Or better still – invest in the Welcome Baby kit below as there are many in this for your immediate use. I can add others as needed.
All cultures respected and revered women, and their role in creating the next generation – hence the future. The information on traditional maternal care – belly binding, vaginal steaming, mother roasting (never, ever ice on a vulnerable woman’s body) and Maya massage is found on the www.HeatherSays.com site.
If the perineum has been damaged – this information will be very helpful – at least start with a little organic castor oil inside, and on the wounded areas – once they are sealed over. The use of the safe intimate care products will guarantee easy transition from just birthed to happily sitting/using body however you want
Comfrey ointment used to massage in to the wounds – esp C section – once healed – in addition to the organic castor oil – and using moxa in the sacrum and the actual scar – over the top of it – for a few minutes then following up with acupuncture or least self massage – is what may be needed – regardless of how old the scarring is.
Many have been able to heal this at home using all the info on of all things’ birth preparation – moxa and massage for the pelvis to get the Qi and Blood flowing again. Please also look to the ‘health’ section on this site.
Up to you . . not luck
Also look to the Opening Baby Gate site
Any queries, please contact me firstname.lastname@example.org